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Menurut Psikolog Laksmi Andhiyani Setiawan S. Psi
Ada 13 permintaan anak yang mungkin tidak pernah mereka ucapkan ....

1. Cintai aku sepenuh hatimu
2. Aku ingin jadi diri sendiri, maka hargailah aku
3. Cobalah mengerti aku dan cara belajar aku
4. Jangan marahi aku didepan orang banyak
5. Jangan bandingkan aku dengan kakak atau adikku
6. Ayah/Ibu jangan lupa...aku adalah fotocopy-mu
7. Kian hari umurku kian bertambah, maka jangan selalu anggap aku anak kecil
8. Biarkan aku mencoba, lalu beritahu aku bila aku salah
9. Jangan membuatku bingung, maka tegaslah padaku
10. Jangan ungkit-2 kesalahanku
11. Aku adalah ladang pahala bagimu
12. Jangan memarahi aku dengan mengatakan hal-2 buruk, bukankah apa yang keluar dari mulutmu adalah do'a bagiku?
13. Jangan melarangku dengan hanya berkata "JANGAN", tapi berilah penjelasan kenapa tidak boleh melakukan sesuatu

Apa iya anak2 sekarang berpikiran seperti itu? 

Menurutku sih iya, tapi tidak semua...  

Boleh aja anak2 punya pemikiran seperti itu tapi kita sebagai ortu pasti punya cara2 berbeda satu sama lain dalam menunjukkan perhatian dan rasa sayangnya...

Yang penting tetap menjalin komunikasi yang "mesra" dengan anak2. Jangan biarkan anak-2 berpaling pada orang lain pada saat mereka membutuhkan kita hanya karena kita sulit untuk diajak bicara.

Tegas sangat perlu, tapi saling pengertian juga sangat dibutuhkan.

Sesekali boleh deh kita mencoba untuk berada ditempat mereka....so kita bisa merasakan apa yang mereka rasakan.

Gimana menurut anda???
Para ortu ataupun anak-2 yg kebetulan membaca ini, boleh dong komen-nya.... 

To my Children : Ramadhan, Rosa n Rahadian...Saranghae!!!

BTOB Second Confession Lyrics 

Romanization - Color coded

By : BTOBUPDATES

Eunkwang, Minhyuk, Changsub, Hyunsik, Peniel, Ilhoon, Sungjae

oneul-eun goengjanghi jung-yohan nal-ibnida han yeoja-ege dubeonjjae gobaeg-eul haneun nal-igeodeun-yo geunyeoege dasi chaj-agalyeo habnida gwayeon geunyeoga je ma-eum-eul bad-ajulkkayo? oneul-eun waenji neukkim-i johseubnida

jajonsimdo da beoligo dubeonjjae gobaeg hago sip-eun mal-i manh-ado saenglyaghalge meosjige na byeonhalge oneulbuteo dasi maeil gyeon-uwa jignyeocheoleom meosjin salang-eul haebollae

neol wihae bang an-eseo teul-eobaghyeo gobaeg yeonseub neoman-eul wihan selenade nolaedo yeonseub neom-eojyeodo dasi il-eona geogjeonghajima yong-gileul naeja seotunpyeonjileul sseugo keodalan gom-inhyeong gong-geub

uliga salanghaessdeon sigando geutolog kkumgyeol gatdeon sigando modu jeonbu da ij-eul suga eobsneunde

All day neoman saeng-gaghae eojedo bam-eul sewossne Girl gaseum-i dabdabhae jammos-iluneun bam-e

eotteongayo geudaen gwaenchanhna bwayo haluhalu geuttae chueog-e jeoj-eo him-i deuneyo eonjelado geudae dol-aondamyeon nunmul ttawin eobsgessjyo dubeonjjae naui gobaeg

I want you back baby I swear it’s true Won’t ever make you jealous, I’ll make them jealous of you Come back to me, for eternity And take a listen to my 2nd confession please

neowa nan ije sinho hanaleul kkigoseo maju bwa eojjeona simjang-i teojyeo beolil geosman gat-a nuga geunyeoege naesalang-eul kyupiteuui hwasal-eul nallyeojwo nal sallyeojwo eolas? chologbul-ida!

dol-a ol su iss-eulkka geuttaega dasi nawa hamkke hal su iss-eulkka geudaega dasi galosu gil babjib nonhyeondong-ui achim dasi han beon mas bogo sip-eun golmoggil-eseoui kiseu

yeojikkeos himgyeowossdeon sigandeul galsulog huhoeppun-in nanaldeul modu jeonbu da doedolligo sip-eunde

All day neoman saeng-gaghae eojedo bam-eul sewossne Girl geudaeneun eotteonji dol-agago sip-eunde

eotteongayo geudaen gwaenchanhna bwayo haluhalu geuttae chueog-e jeoj-eo him-i deuneyo eonjelado geudae dol-aondamyeon nunmul ttawin eobsgessjyo du beonjjae naui gobaeg

namdeul-ui siseon-i dulyeobjin anh-a du beonjjae gobaeg geudaeleul wihan selenade du beonjjaegobaeg

Throwing away my pride to ask you to come back I’ll be your shoulder strap and you can be my backpack

geuttaelo dasi dol-agago sip-eunde geudaeneun wae Oh wae nae mam mollajunayo  eonjelado geudae dol-aondamyeon nunmul ttawin eobsgessjyo Oh

eotteongayo geudaen gwaenchanhna bwayo haluhalu geuttae chueog-e jeoj-eo him-i deuneyo eonjelado geudae dol-aondamyeon nunmul ttawin eobsgessjyo du beonjjae naui gobaeg

English Translation

[Minhyuk] Today is a very important day

Today is the day I give my second confession to one girl

I’m going to look for her once again

Will she accept my heart?

For some reason, I feel good about today

 [Ilhoon] I threw away all my pride for this second confession

Even though I have so much to say, I’ll keep it short

I’ll change to be cool From today and everyday

I want to have a great love like Gyunwoo and Jingnyuh

 [Minhyuk] I shut myself in my room practicing my confession for you

Practicing a serenade only for you

Even if you fall, stand back up. Don’t worry, let’s have some courage

I wrote a poor letter and prepared a big teddy bear

 [Eunkwang] The time that we loved, it all seemed like a dream

All, Everything, I can’t seem to forget those times

 [Changsub] All day I’m only thinking of you I stayed up all night yesterday Girl

It’s frustrating on this sleepless night

 [Sungjae] How are you You seem to be okay

Day by day I’m indulged in reminiscence of that time it’s tiring

[Hyunsik] If you ever come back someday

There won’t be any tears My second confession

 [Peniel] I want you back baby I swear it’s true

Won’t ever make you jealous, I’ll make them jealous of you

Come back to me, for eternity

And take a listen to my 2nd confession please

 [Minhyuk] You and me get caught in between signals and face each other

What do I do, I think my heart will explode

Someone send Cupid’s arrow with my love to her. Please save me

Uh? It’s a green light!

 [Ilhoon] Could I come back to that time together with you again?

Garuso-street restaurant Nonhyeon-dong’s morning

The kiss in the alleyway that I want to taste again

 [Changsub] The more hard times we went through,  I only had regrets

I want everything to return to how it was

 [Eunkwang] All day I’m only thinking of you I stayed up all night yesterday Girl

I wonder how you are I want to go back to you

 [Sungjae] How are you You seem to be okay

Day by day I’m indulged in reminiscence of that time it’s tiring

[Hyunsik] If you ever come back someday

There won’t be any tears My second confession

 [Minhyuk] I’m not afraid of what other people think about my second confession

A serenade for you Second confession

 [Peniel] Throwing away my pride to ask you to come back

I’ll be your shoulder strap and you can be my backpack

 [Changsub] I want to go back to that time

Why Oh why don’t you know how I feel?

[Eunkwang] If you ever come back someday

There won’t be any tears Oh

 [Sungjae] How are you You seem to be okay

Day by day I’m indulged in reminiscence of the memory of that time it’s tiring

[Hyunsik] If you ever come back someday

There won’t be any tears My second confession

English: CBZ

B2ST - THE FACT 

Romanization - English Translation

Romanization

[DJ] geojitmal iya geojitmal iya ireohke kkeutnael suneun eobseo dashi dorawa jebal dorawa niga nal tteonaganeunge mitgijiga anha

[HS] eotteon mareul neoege haebwado da soyong-i eobtgettjiman igeon aniya igeon aniya i sashileul mitgi mothagesseo

[DW] igeon modu geojitmal iya sashil-i aniya deoneun mitgi mothae dorawa dallago myeotbeoneul malhae naege igeon geojitmariytteo [YS] ijen neoneun nae yeope eobtjanha geuge sashil i ya mitgo shipji anha dorawa dallago su eobshi yaegihaebwado jigeum-i geojitmalyeoyahae

[KK] geojitmal iya geojitmal iya geojitmal iya geojitmal iya sashil-i anya sashil-i anya sashil-i anya sashil-i anya

[JH] It’s a fact meorineun aneunde mam-i injeongeul mothagettde samkyeojil deuthan bulangam-e nado moreuge naoneun bohobonneung ddoneun jibchakin deuthae meori wiro tuk hago ddeoleojyeobeorin-i sanghwang dojeohi kamdang halsu eobseo nan biweo naelsu eobtdamyeon saero chaeweobolke neowa naui iyagireul dashi sseonaelyeo galke

English Translation

[DJ] It’s a lie, it’s a lie We can’t end like this Come back to me again, please come back to me I can’t believe the fact that you are leaving me

[HS] No matter what I say to you right now, It’s going to have no effect whatsoever This isn’t right, this isn’t right I can’t trust this fact

[DW] This is all a lie, not the truth I can’t believe it any longer I will tell you many times to come back to me This is all just a lie

[YS] Now you are no longer next to me That is the truth, I don’t want to believe it Come back to me, even if I say this many times All of this just has to be a lie right now

[KK] It’s a lie. It’s a lie. It’s a lie. It’s a lie This isn’t the truth. This isn’t the truth. This isn’t the truth. This isn’t the truth.

[JH] It’s a fact My mind knows, but my heart can’t get accustommed to it In the uncertainty, without even knowing, I keep clinging on to the different parts This situation that fell on top of my head randomly I can no longer handle it If I can’t empty you, I will try to erase again I will rewrite the story of you and I

source: JKLOV'S

On Rainy Day by B2ST ~my forever favourite song~

B2ST - On Rainy Day 

(Romanization - English Tranlation) 

[DJ] sesang-i eodu weojigo joyonghi biga naerimyeon yeojeonhi geudaero

[KK] oneuldo eogimeobshi nan beoseonajil mot hane neoui saenggak aneseo

[YS] ije kkeut iraneun geol aljiman miryeoniran geol aljiman ije anil geol aljiman [HS] geukkajit jajonshim-e neol jabji mothaettdeon naega jogeum aswi-ul bbuninikka

[YS] biga oneun nal-en nareul chajawa bameul saeweo gwireop hida biga geuchyeogamyeon neodo ddaraseo seoseo-hi jogeumsshik geuchyeogagettji

[JH] chwihaettna bwa geuman mashyeoya dwil geot gat-e biga ddeoleojinikka nado ddeoleojil geot gat-e mwo niga bogo shipdageona geureon geon anya daman uri ga kajin shigan-i jom nalkaro-ul bbun niga cham johahaesseottdeon ireon narimyeon ajik neomu saengsaenghan gieok-eul kkeonaenohgo chueokiran deoche ilbuleo bal-eul deuryeonwa beoseonaryeogo balbeodungjocha chiji anha

[DW] ije neoreul da jiweonaettjiman modu da biweonaettjiman ddo dashi biga naerimyeon [KK] himdeulge sumgyeonwattdeon neoui modeun gieokdeul-i dashi dorawa neol chatnabwa

[YS] biga oneun nal-en nareul chajawa bameul saeweo gwireop hida biga geuchyeogamyeon neodo ddaraseo seoseo-hi jogeumsshik geuchyeogagettji

(neoegero) [HS] ijen doragal gileun eobtjiman jigeum haengbokhan neoreul bomyeo [DW] nan geuraedo useobolke neol jabeul su isseottdeon him-i naegen eobseosseunikka

[YS] biga oneun nal-en nareul chajawa bameul saeweo gwireop hida biga geuchyeogamyeon neodo ddaraseo seoseo-hi jogeumsshik geuchyeogagettji

[JH] eochapi kkeutnabeorin geol ije wa eojjeogesseo dwineutge hu-hwina haneun keoji deolddeoleojin nomcheoreom bineun hangsang onikka gyesok banbokdwigettji geuchigo namyeon geujeseoya nado geuchigettji

[JH] bineun hangsang onikka gyesok banbokdwigettji geuchigo namyeon geujeseoya nado geuchigettji

English Translation

[DJ] When the world turns dark And the rain quietly falls Everything is still

[KK] Even today, without a doubt I can’t get out of it I can’t get out from the thoughts of you

[YS] Now I know that it’s the end I know that it’s all just foolishness Now I know that it’s not true [HS] I am just disappointed in myself for Not being able to get a hold of you because of that pride

[YS] On the rainy days you come and find me Torturing me through the night When the rain starts to stop, you follow Slowly, little by little, you will stop as well

[JH] I must be drunk, I think I need to stop drinking Since the rain is falling, I think I might fall as well Well this doesn’t mean that I miss you, no it doesn’t mean that It just means that the time we had together was a bit sharp When it’s the type of day that you really liked I keep opening the raw memories of you Making the excuse that it’s all memories, I take a step forward I don’t even make the effort to escape

[DW] Now I erased all of you I emptied out all of you But when the rain falls again [KK] All the memories of you I hid with effort It all comes back, it must be looking for you

[YS] On the rainy days you come and find me Torturing me through the night When the rain starts to stop, you follow Slowly, little by little, you will stop as well

(To you) [HS] Now there is no path for me to return But looking at your happy face [DW] I will still try to laugh since I was the one Without the strength to stop you

[YS] On the rainy days you come and find me Torturing me through the night When the rain starts to stop, you follow Slowly, little by little, you will stop as well

[JH] What can I do about something that already ended? I’m just regretting after like the stupid fool I am Rain always falls so it will repeat again When it stops, that’s when I will stop as well

[JH] Rain always falls so it will repeat again When it stops, that’s when I will stop as well

source: JKLOV'S